Understand this, since Satan hates women with a supernatural passion, he will also try to use you to attack women for his own purposes. You must view women as you sisters in the Lord, and treat them accordingly. God will not bless a man who attacks his daughters through abuse, bigamy and control. Guard yourself from these vices, because Satan will surely use you as one of his minions, if you allow him.
One of Satan’s oldest tricks that he uses is to make us think that we have to be supernatural performers in every area of life in order to please a woman! My brother, you must take that pressure off yourself. God is not requiring you to be the second “Messiah” to the world. God expects you to function as a man under His authority. He is not requiring you to look to a woman to validate you as a man. God’s word says that we are “complete in HIM!” You must learn to be yourself, and stop trying to measure up to unrealistic expectations that people require you to fulfill.
My brothers, God wants to have an intimate relationship with you as His son. The more time we spend with Him in prayer and meditation will produce a greater manifestation of power and confidence. God wants men to walk in confidence and strength. We are to manifest the works of God, because He has anointed us with the Holy Ghost. In Acts 1:8, He tells us that we will receive power after the Holy Ghost comes upon us. The word “power” means the supernatural ability that God has. Once we realize that the Holy Spirit is in place in our lives, we can depend on His ability to stop the advance of hurt feelings from past relationships. Satan uses past hurts and failures to cause us to feel inadequate and impotent as men of God. You must understand that as long as you allow hurt to stay in you, the easier it is for Satan to access you soul. Satan uses the memory of past hurts and failures to revive the feelings of those situations. This is why it seems as though you feel the same intensity of the pain from something that may have happened years ago, by just thinking about the situation. Learn to use your authority to destroy the power of the past so that it can no longer rule your future. Every time a thought comes to your mind about a past failure, respond to it with the word of God. Continue to do this until that thought stops coming. The bible says that the Word is like a hammer that breaks the rock in pieces! Proverbs 23 tells us that you are what you think. Once you gain control of your thought life, you gain control of your life. Continue to meditate on the Word of God, so that you can change what you allow to come into your mind. As you grow in meditation of the Word of God, you will create a mind that is fully persuaded by what God says, and not what the world says. Once your mind is changed, your speech will change. You will then be able to speak the word in any situation, and change your destiny!